When a person decides to get married, they say, they want to settle down. Why? Settling down has such a negative tone. Why attach it to such an important decision of your life. Why settle down, when you can elevate yourself. I don't want to settle down ever in my life. My idea of marriage is not settling down, it's much more than that.

Getting married is a very big event of our life, and it should be a positive one. Our partner should be the one elevating us. They should be the one helping us become a better person in life, or helping us get a better career for ourselves, or just help us be a better version of ourself.

The right person can & will make all this happen. And when you find one, you shouldn't be settling down with them, instead you should be growing, together.